This past Saturday I decided to seek medical help for the Crud, as I couldn’t stop coughing and was feeling worse every day. Turns out I have pneumonia. I’ve been on antibiotics and liquid codeine for 4 days now, and I finally feel better, a lot better. I’ve just been sleeping. That Promethazine with codeine packs a sleepy wallop.
I put up a new profile on Bear411. I had this up for a minute and then took it down, but I’m putting it up again; Shawn wants to see it.
SELF-INTERVIEW, March 2008
Q – So what’s your story?
A – Well, I’m 45, Pisces, poz, single. I was born in Oregon but I grew up in central California. Been in Portland for 14 years. As you can see from my pictures, I’m stocky, sporadically furry, and I shave my head.
Q – Isn’t this self-interview thing a bit pompous?
A – I dunno, is it? Thought it would be an interesting way to profile myself. I’m a very un-pompous person.
Q – Why shave your head?
A – So that I don’t have that “Dr. Phil” head. I don’t much care for that look. If your hair is going, or mostly gone, then I say let it be gone! Shave that shit off.
Q – How long have you been poz? Are you healthy?
A – I’ve been poz for 20 years. Yes, I’m healthy….haven’t ever had a major infection of any kind. I am “undetectable”.
Q – What kind of guys are you attracted to?
A – I like lots of kinds of guys, but am chiefly attracted to “Daddies”, from around 40 to about 50. Those aren’t strict numbers, but that’s generally the kind of guy who gets me very excited. Younger guys are looking very cute to me, though. Guess that happens when you begin getting older.
Q – Ok, but what about physical type?
A – The truth is, even though I’m a stocky bear myself, I’m not into big bear guys. I like a trimmer guy than me, and I like a guy my height or taller. I’m 5′8” without boots on.
Q – Sounds pretty darn specific.
A – Well, if I met someone and there was chemistry there, I certainly wouldn’t back away just because they didn’t fit into some ideal. I’m just describing what kind of guy usually turns me head.
Q – What’s with all the nekkid pictures? Are you some kind of dirty birdie?
A – I’m just a sexual person. I did some stuff for Bearfilms.com and I think the pictures turned out well.(They are 5 years old now). There are new ones coming soon, and a new movie. If I was in a relationship, and my partner didn’t want me having these pictures on my profile, I’d take them down. My relationships have always been monogomous. I just have always thought that porn is hot. I’m not a prude, and wouldn’t want to date one.
Q – What about substances?
A – I quit smoking recently and seriously plan to stay off cigarettes. I only drink very casually and I would not care date someone for whom alcohol is an important part of life. I think pot is okay once in awhile. I like poppers during sex. I used to do lines, but that’s been years ago. Pretty much just the occasional cocktail, the odd toke if it presents itself and a hit of Jungle Juice to spice things up in bed.
Q – Are you craving a boyfriend?
A – No, not “craving”… but I have been in great relationships with wonderful guys and it is a nice way to go through life. I would like to have that again. I like waking up together, having someone to sit next to, someone to talk and give my love to. I have a LOT of that.
Q – What are you into?
A – Ecchh…hate that question. Can’t we just see what happens, if there is an attraction? Sexually I am mostly bottom, but also happy to top, because I know how good it feels to get fucked. I believe I have coined the term “Viagra Versatile”. I like oral sex a lot, and have played around lightly with some BDSM stuff. That can be fun with the right person.
Q – Hobbies?
A – I like to read a good book, I like to go to the movies, and I especially love live theatre. I do some acting in the local theatre community and have had quite a bit of success at that. I’m not all that outdoorsy, but since I have quit smoking, I think maybe I could try a few more outdoor activities. I think occasional gambling is fun, and museums can be cool. Love the beach, and being naked outside.
Q – Ok, I think that’s all I need to know.
A – Well, there is more to know. Feel free to email or IM me. I do like to date, but I’m not big on blind hook-ups. I like to find out if there’s chemistry first. If what a person does for a living or how much money they have or make is important to you, there is no need to contact me. Other than that, please say hello. My blog can be an interesting read, it’s my homepage link above. PEACE!! LOVE!! DANCE NAKED!!
